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Thursday, October 3, 2013

The Kidnapping of Baby Desirai

For the small few who are following this blog, I assure you at some point I will post some fluff and maybe even introduce myself.  But for now, you must tolerate the things that matter to me.

Desirai Simmons was born May of this year to a Native American mother and non-native father.  Little Desirai hails from the Absentee Shawnee tribe.  Shortly before her birth - two months before to be exact- her parents split up and her mother decided to cut contact with her father, Jeremy Simmons.  Her mother, Crystal Tarbox, went on to marry another man shortly after.  Must have been a hell of a quickie wedding since she split with Simmons when she was seven months pregnant and was married to another man by the time she gave birth a few months later.  Either way, she split up with the father of her 3rd child and was married to another man by the time Desirai was born.

This case mirrors the "Baby Veronica" case in many ways.  We have a young, unmarried couple who split up and an expectant mother who vanishes without a trace and refuses all contact from the father.  After her quickie marriage, the couple sought help through a church and were directed to Nightlight and Ray Godwin.  Yup, you heard correctly.  They contacted the now infamous child trafficking "adoption" lawyer and agency in order to place little Desirai for adoption without notifying Simmons of her plans.

The couple who planned to adopt Desirai are from South Carolina.  Hmmm....are we seeing a pattern here?  After all, South Carolina was called the adoption mecca, if memory serves me correctly.  The go-to state for quick and easy adoptions with no "birth" parent hassle.  Fathers' rights are non existent.  The same state that completely dismissed Veronica Brown's right to a best interest hearing.  The same state that that felt her current situation at the time of her forced illegal adoption was irrelevant.  

But this case gets a bit strange.  The couple who were seeking to adopt little Desirai are in their 60's.  They have adult children who had all moved out of the home.  The move to adopt an infant almost seems like some weird, crazed empty-nester type nonsense.  Not to be discriminatory with age, but I have not heard of a couple that old adopting a newborn.  And last I checked, most agencies and lawyers won't consider a couple that advanced in years.  But Bobby and Diane Bixler were the lucky couple chosen to take Desirai and raise her as their own. 

This would have worked.  I'm sure if a few things were done differently, we would probably be hearing about another epic custody battle that would span for years and years and cover two states holding a jurisdictional pissing match.  What went wrong, might you ask?  Well, it's well documented that the only paperwork filed was the petition for adoption in South Carolina.  But Desirai was born in Oklahoma (you catching on here?).  The senior citizen Bixlers left Oklahoma and took Desirai home, no longer wanting to wait it out while two lawyers bickered about who was in charge of what.  Bobby Bixler had to get back to work.  So they just took the baby and left.

And no Interstate Compact for the Placement of Children (ICPC) had been filed.  All the legal eagles involved in trafficking Desirai out of Oklahoma couldn't seem to agree on who would file what.  So Bobby and Diane Bixler, tired of waiting for all the proper forms to be finalized, just packed Desirai up and left for South Carolina.

For those unfamiliar with the ICPC, it is a very important piece of paper.  It is legally mandated that this form is filled out and filed with the child's state of residence before a child can be transferred across state lines for foster care and adoptive placements.  To not have one filed and still remove the child out of state is a crime.  The Bixlers committed a crime.  They may not have realized just how serious of a crime they had committed or possibly be aware that they committed a crime at all, but it is still a crime nonetheless.

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Nightlight and Ray Godwin got themselves into some hot water.  They might have been able to pull off Veronica Brown's sale to the Capobiancos, but this little mis-hap wasn't going to go unnoticed.  When a South Carolina judge noticed there was no ICPC form in the initial adoption paperwork, he put a complete stop to the adoption.  A lawyer in Oklahoma and the one involved in handling all the ICPC paperwork have demanded Desirai's return.  Jeremy Simmons and Crystal's mother, Janet Snake, have demanded Desirai's return.  Desirai, as I have said, is a member of the Absentee Shawnee tribe, so her removal out of state for adoption also violated the Indian Child Welfare Act

So, let's figure this out....nobody filed the ICPC and Desirai is a member of a federally recognized tribe, granting her certain protections under federal law.  And, I might be wrong, but I do believe not having an ICPC is a violation of federal law as well.  If I am wrong, please correct me.  I assume it is since we're talking about transporting a child across state lines.

The judge who caught on that something was amiss demanded to know where the infant was and got numerous vague answers from the lawyers for the adoption agency.  Rumors even circulated that little Desirai had been moved through at least two other families since the Bixlers.  But no doubt that was done in an effort to conceal Desirai's where-abouts or to take heat off the Bixlers all together.  But it was nothing more than a smoke-screen.  The child's tribe had come forward, demanding custody and citing ICWA violations and were granted custody of Desirai through an Oklahoma court.  

The Bixlers have yet to produce the child, hoping to hold onto her.  I'm sure after seeing how the Veronica Brown case went, they are holding onto hope that if they hold on long enough, the courts will just finalize the adoption.  Another set of entitled adopters who think since they paid top dollar for Desirai, they should be allowed to keep her.  

The last update I have heard on this case is that the Absentee Shawnee are going to South Carolina to get their Oklahoma court order domesticated.  I keep wondering what Oklahoma governor, Mary Fallin, plans to do to the Bixlers for kidnapping the little Oklahoma citizen.  South Carolina courts put out charges against Dusten Brown for refusing to hand over his daughter to the Capobiancos in the fraudulent adoption.  Governor Haley signed an extradition warrant for him.  So what is Fallin going to do to the Bixlers?  What are Oklahoma courts going to do?  Where are the charges?  Where is the extradition warrant?

Here's to hope that baby Desirai gets to go back home.  With her family, where she belongs.  

*for those wondering: the tribe got involved because of the ICWA violations.  and as an unmarried father, Simmons would have been up against impossible odds if he tried challenging the South Carolina adoption alone.  the lack of ICPC was a godsend in this case, no doubt about it, but I tend to think that OK and SC would have simply got one set up and brushed this under the rug had the tribe not come forward*

Saturday, September 28, 2013

Corrupt Courts Condone the Illegal Adoption and Kidnapping of Veronica Brown

On Monday, the 23rd of September, Dusten Brown packed two bags for his four year old daughter, Veronica, as he prepared to have her escorted to the non related couple who fought for four years to adopt his child against his will. Though both he and Veronica are registered members of the Cherokee Nation, the federal laws put in place to protect them were declared non-applicable to him and opened the door for South Carolina to terminate his rights and adopt his child out, all while she resided with her father several states away in Oklahoma.
 

The custody battle, known publicly as the Baby Veronica case, is a case rife with mixed emotions, split sides, and questions over South Carolina's practice of adopting out children from other states, using their state laws to declare unmarried fathers not legal parents and therefore with no rights to contest the adoptions of their children.
 

Dusten Brown fought long and hard to get custody of his daughter, fighting her adoption since he was notified of the intent to adopt when little Veronica was 3 or 4 months old, gaining legal custody and then having to fight another two years to retain custody. This last summer, the biggest blow came to his case when the Supreme Court of the United States ruled that portions of the Indian Child Welfare Act did not apply to him in his fight for his daughter. The ruling was a close one, two of the dissenting justices giving scathing statements regarding the interpretation of the law, claiming it was twisted to suit the interests of the couple seeking to adopt Veronica but pointed out that ICWA would still apply to Veronica and Brown's extended family. The main ruling was all the Capobiancos and their legal team needed, though. With the ruling in hand, the case was kicked back to the lower courts. Based on the ICWA ruling alone, South Carolina courts reversed the custody order and demanded that Brown return Veronica to the Capobiancos. Never mind the fact that the original ruling that granted him custody only had a small bit to do with ICWA. South Carolina reversed its ruling based on the SCOTUS's ruling of ICWA alone.
 

Brown continued to push his legal options and refused to turn Veronica over to the Capobiancos, which he was within his legal right to contest . In response to Brown's refusal to hand Veronica over, judge Martin finalized the adoption and then issued a felony warrant out for Brown's arrest, citing Custodial Interference. All of this within a matter of days of the court ruling that reversed the custody order. Veronica, who had been living with her father for almost two years, was not granted a best interest hearing. The courts deemed a best interest hearing unnecessary. In other words: Veronica's civil rights did not matter and the fact that she was 4 yrs old and living with her father for almost half her life were irrelevant.
 

Brown took his case to the Oklahoma Supreme Court, but they later determined that they could not take over jurisdiction of the case. Simply put: because the Capobiancos had an adoption order signed by a judge, they had to honor the state order. Full faith and credit to South Carolina. Oklahoma could not legally intervene, even though they pointed out that the finalized adoption order violated both states' adoption laws.
 

You heard me right: Judge Martin violated South Carolina adoption law in finalizing Veronica's adoption to Matt and Melanie Capobianco.
 
SECTION 63-9-750. Final hearing. [SC ST SEC 63-9-750]
(1) the adoptee has been in the actual custody of the petitioner for a period of ninety days unless the court finds as provided in subsection (A) that there is good cause for modifying the time within which the final hearing may be held;

 

Shown above is actual wording of South Carolina Adoption Laws in regards to the final hearing in which finalization takes place. By South Carolina law, Veronica should have been in their physical custody and residing within the state at the time of finalization. Veronica was living with her father in Oklahoma.
 

Another thing to take into consideration is the initial petition to adopt Veronica when she was a newborn. The law states that the child must be in the state at the time of the petition. In sworn court testimony from Melanie Capobianco, she admitted that the petition was filed when Veronica was 3 days old and she was still in Oklahoma. They wouldn't even leave Oklahoma until Veronica was a week old. So the petition alone was not legal. The petition is only good for six months to a year. Several years have passed. And even if they submitted a new petition, it was still in violation of the law because Veronica was not in the state nor in their custody.


SECTION 20-7-1660. Children who may be adopted.

Any child present within this State at the time the petition for adoption is filed, irrespective of place of birth or place of residence, may be adopted.

So Oklahoma courts point out the illegalities of the finalized adoption order, but cannot contest it since it is an order signed by a judge, a judge who was deemed incompetent in family law by numerous lawyers. The Oklahoma Supreme Court ruling also barred the Cherokee Nation from assuming jurisdiction, even though SCOTUS acknowledged that Veronica, her grandparents and stepmom would be covered under ICWA.

Dusten Brown had no other choice but to hand Veronica over to this couple hell bent on taking her from him. With the stay being lifted, the Capobiancos wasted no time in pursuing a federal order that demanded Veronica's immediate return to their custody. To add further insult to injury, the South Carolina courts and judge Martin filed a lawsuit against him for lawyer fees and court costs. He also still has that extradition hearing to look forward to. It seems that South Carolina is determined to destroy this man legally and financially for daring to stand up them and exposing the corrupt nature of their adoption racket.

Brown has been silent on this entire matter for the most part. In spite of the smear campaign waged against him by the Capobiancos, their public relations firm Trio Solutions (Jessica Munday being the mouthpiece for them) and even Christie Maldonado, he has not uttered one bad word against them publicly. Even after his daughter was literally kidnapped from him via a corrupt court system, he still has not said one bad thing against them. I imagine he is dealing with a lot of emotions right now. He's facing prison time and potential financial ruin. One can hope that if the extradition business is dealt with and dropped, he can go to South Carolina and challenge the adoption. If put to a full legal challenge, the adoption would have to be dissolved.  South Carolina wouldn't be able to hide from scrutiny if the nation was made fully aware of the laws broken in their zeal to steal Veronica from Brown and efforts to brush this legal circus under the rug.

It's clear now that the finalization of the adoption, the lawsuit and the criminal charges are all retaliatory measures against Brown for daring to stand up to the incompetent judge Martin and the adoption industry. The goal? Make an example out of him and send out the message to all unmarried fathers: the courts have spoken and you are not considered parents in the eyes of the law, therefore lacking any rights to your children. You stand up to us and we will destroy you.

Author's edit(9/29/2013) - I would like to point out a correction.  In the entry, I state the lawsuit comes from the judge.  I am incorrect.  It's been verified through several news sources now that the Capobiancos themselves are behind the $500,000 lawsuit for legal fees.

I also found out there was a competing adoption petition from Tommy and Alice Brown, Dusten's parents.  Submitted before South Carolina courts finalized Veronica's adoption, another violation of their state laws as well as federal law.  ICWA is clear that family and tribe come before placement with a non related, non native family.